I'm not entirely sure how to write this. The last week has been a whirlwind. I haven't yet written about 3 really hot and ridiculously fun encounters with Dancer since resuming a physical relationship with him. I really should because *I* don't want to forget. So, reminders to myself for later:
- Van in Minneapolis,
- red and black slutty,
- and late night sleepover
And I did meet someone new on OKC... except he wasn't new - he was a classmate of my at school. So we'll call him College. He's also divorced, with 2 kids close in age to my own. He saw me in his potential match list, and sent me a note. We decided to meet for coffee and catch up. We flirted. We talked. We kissed when it was time to go home. And then kissed again. And again. And he made me feel tingly, in a good way. That was Tuesday. We made plans to have dinner with each other on Thursday. I told Deity that it was a nice night, and that I'd be seeing College again.
On Wednesday, I sent College a text asking if he'd like to come over for a walk after dinner. I did not tell Deity that. Given the nature of the notes I'd been exchanging with College, it wasn't going to be just a walk. I was right, it wasn't. When we got back to my house, we sat on the couch, then I sat on his lap, and we ended up upstairs, naked in my bed. It was good, and I don't regret it. I have learned that if a man I date makes me tingly on the first date - there is no sense in pretending otherwise. The payoff from that lesson is really great sex with some really great guys. I digress... on to Thursday.
Thursday, College picked up Thai takeout, I picked up a Scrabble game, and he came over for dinner and playing. The food was yummy, the conversation enjoyable and entertaining, and I had so much fun teasing him. He returned the favor. We didn't finish the game... instead, I got eaten out in the middle of the living room, rode him after that, then we cuddled half naked and talked about languages, and foreign travel, and the benefits and draw backs of 50/50 custody schedules. The conversation eventually acknowledged our mostly naked-ness, and we went upstairs to my bed. Another digression... College is very good with his tongue.
Friday was just, Friday. I chatted with Dancer briefly, just to check in. I chatted with Deity a lot, because he was concerned about College. I doubt he would put it in those words - but Deity knew about Dancer, and it was no big deal. My tone when telling him about College is very different, and I know it, and can't help it. There is a strong feeling of possibility with College that I can't deny, and I can't lie to Deity about it either.
Anyway - that was Friday. Dancer was going to be out of town. College would have his kids starting Friday afternoon, and Deity asked if he could come and visit. I told him my Saturday plans, which were all fun things that didn't involve men, and told him if he wanted to, he could come up, but I'd be garage saleing, sewing, having dinner with a friend, and then going dancing.
And.... I have to stop there for now. I realize I didn't even get to the weekend part of this post - but it's late, and in addition to men - real life and work have been kicking my ass. More to follow, soonish.