Afterthoughts

After last weeks fracas,  Dancer had a teaching workshop out of town.  Before he left, I confirmed plans for dinner on Tuesday at 7. (Uh, that would be tomorrow as I type this.)   And in the meantime, a friend of his from Seattle posted to his facebook, asking if he would listen to a story between 7:30/8 pm tomorrow (Uh, yeah, Tuesday)   Dancer said yes.  What the fuck! 

Regardless, said post resulted in this email being sent:

<Dancer> see attached.   Enjoy your friend's story.   When you have some sense that perhaps a 7:30/8 pm phone call might conflict with dinner with another friend - consider apologizing.  I'm done being an afterthought.  I don't mean for this to be overly dramatic, but I really don't need a one-way friendship.

The attachment was a screen grab of the post.  I really don't need him and his thoughtless behavior.  That is not how a friend behaves, regardless of sex being involved or not. At this point, I think I don't care what his response is.  No - that's not quite true.  I care to the point of getting an apology.  I'll give him a week.  No reply = unfriend and thanks for the memories.